Relationships are messy. Connection is worth the work.
Therapy for couples, families, and individuals who feel caught in cycles of conflict, disconnection, and misunderstanding.
Currently accepting virtual clients in California.
Having the same argument without getting anywhere.
Feeling like you're talking but not being heard.
Walking on eggshells or shutting down to avoid another fight.
Loving each other but feeling further and further apart.
Wanting to reconnect but not knowing how.
Maybe you're tired of...
If this feels familiar, you’re not alone—and there is a way to understand what’s happening beneath the surface.
Hi, I’m Kaci!
I’m a relational therapist who works with couples, families, and individuals. Together, we slow things down to understand the patterns—both within ourselves and between us—that can make connection feel difficult.
As those patterns come into focus, there’s more space to respond differently, feel more understood, and find your way back to connection.
What this work feels like…
This is a collaborative and relational process where we pay attention to what’s happening in your emotions, your body, and your relationships in real time. We don’t just talk about patterns—we begin to notice how they show up in the moment, so they can slowly start to shift.
Over time, therapy becomes a space where you can experience yourself and your relationships differently: with more clarity, steadiness, and connection.
“It takes courage to become who you really are.”
-EE Cummings
I often work with people who…
“We love each other. Why does it feel like we're always fighting?”
“I want to understand my partner, but I don't know how to get through to them.”
“We keep having the same conversation and somehow end up further apart.”
“We want to learn how to communicate before things get worse.”
“I don't know how to reach my teenager anymore.”
“My teen has pulled away, and I don't know how to reconnect without pushing them further away.”
“My parent and I love each other, but we keep misunderstanding each other.”
“I know my past is affecting how I react, but knowing that hasn't been enough to change it.”
My work is relational and trauma-informed, with an understanding of how our early experiences, family relationships, and attachments shape the ways we connect with others. Together, we slow things down to understand the patterns that keep showing up—both within ourselves and in our relationships—so you can begin to respond differently and feel more connected.
This work may be a good fit if you…
Want to understand why you and the people you love keep getting caught in the same patterns.
Feel like you’ve tried to communicate, but somehow keep missing each other.
Want to understand yourself and your relationships more deeply—not just manage the immediate problem.
Are willing to slow things down and get curious about what’s happening beneath the conflict, disconnection, or strong reactions.
Want to create meaningful change in the way you relate, communicate, and connect.